Self-Respect

I like me. I hope you do too. It'd be kinda sad if you don't, but I'll still like me all the same. In this post, I'd like to talk about self-respect, and I'd like to use my life as a kind of case study. I've lived almost my entire life, save for maybe the … Continue reading Self-Respect →

Story, Aliveness, and Eroticism

Eroticism It's life giving aliveness back to itself It's poetry and story we bring to sex It's the inner world of life's experience It's life reminding itself that eroticism is the core foundational experience of life itself Resisting eroticism can only give resistance of aliveness Resisting aliveness can only give a loss of self respect … Continue reading Story, Aliveness, and Eroticism →

Complete. Healthy. Happy. Human.

Let me start with an obvious fact. You were born. And like the round shape of the planet Earth, that's a true fact, and now you're living your life somewhere on this big ball we call home. Now tell me... have you ever asked yourself why your life is even possible? The answer, of course, … Continue reading Complete. Healthy. Happy. Human. →

Guts and Sex

Your unvarnished, authentic self is that part of you that only you truly know. It's the secret self we all have, and we're loath (aka scared shitless) to let just anyone see it. Instead, we show each other cinematic versions of ourselves, kinda like movie characters, ones we hope will pass as ourselves. One carefully … Continue reading Guts and Sex →

It’s Your Choice to Make

Science has proven that the human female is built for orgasm, and that her orgasm is not about making babies. Male orgasm is. Female orgasm is about a lot… it's psychological, emotional, physiological, spiritual, relating with herself and with others, self discovery, self development, self determination, self acceptance, receiving, personal expansion and growth, and much … Continue reading It’s Your Choice to Make →

Tell Them You Care

Everyone you care about loves to hear about your affection for them. And telling them has some really awesome effects... on both of you. Expressions of affection (giving and receiving) is directly related to positive effects on mental health, relationship resilience, sexuality, overall contentedness, self acceptance, interconnectedness, and it's essential in maintaining and strengthening our … Continue reading Tell Them You Care →

I Don’t Want To See That

Have you ever tried one of those virtual reality headsets? They're such a technical marvel! When you put one on, the real world fades away and the VR world takes its place. I bought one a little while ago and let me tell you, it's soooooo much fun! I've been to the virtual Grand Canyon, … Continue reading I Don’t Want To See That →

Action Today

Today might be the best chance you have to take action to nudge (or shove) yourself toward your right life, the life your soul knows is yours to live. The longer you wait, the more deeply you get stuck in the status quo, and fear digs in even deeper, eating away at your ability to … Continue reading Action Today →

Loneliness Hurts

We all have times in our lives when we feel the need to spend time alone, me included. The more introverted you are, the more you get recharged this way. I think I'm at least partly introverted... my imagination and fingers start a party and my writing gets better (well, more verbose at least) when … Continue reading Loneliness Hurts →

Nature’s Surprising Little Trick

Recently, a woman I know experienced a medical event serious enough to have paramedics called, who then took her to hospital. Like many, if not most of us, I've seen this kind of thing before, but this time I had a reaction that really surprised me. Of course, my first reaction was a natural concern … Continue reading Nature’s Surprising Little Trick →